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Now that we have moved to our new home, and we are getting settled in at last, I am excited to get back to posting about the homemaking systems I use to keep my home running smoothly.
These are the rules that have proven the most successful for me in my personal homemaking journey. It is my prayer that they may help you in your Divine Calling as a homemaker, as well!
Homemaking Rule #1 -
Keep your morning and evening routines EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. Your routines are the blessings that keep your home running smoothly and your kids feeling secure, even in difficult times.
Homemaking Rule #2 -
Dress the part:
Get dressed and prepared every day for your job as a homemaker-- you should be prepared to leave home at a moment’s notice. And alway, ALWAYS wear an apron when cooking or cleaning! Your wardrobe will thank you, and you will feel “official” in your “mother uniform.”
Homemaking Rule #3 -
1) Serve the Lord, and follow His guidance for what you should do and when you should do it.
2) Nurture family relationships. Your husband and children should be your highest priorities, second only to the will of our Heavenly Father.
3) Care for the home. Yes, serving your family is very important, but make sure that the way you care for your home doesn't harm the relationships that you have with your husband and children.
Homemaking Rule #4 -
Though the work of keeping a home tidy is really never “done,” cleaning up after ourselves and others as we move through our days is the secret to a truly “tidy” home!
Homemaking Rule #5-
“If ye are prepared, ye shall not fear.”
Plan menus, holidays, days, weeks, and even years using planners or apps-- the choice of "how" you plan is up to you. But please PLAN! Your life will run more smoothly, and you will have peace in your heart if you are prepared.
Homemaking Rule #6 -
Whatever it is that you know you should be doing, DO IT NOW. Putting things off until later causes regret and frustration.
Homemaking Rule #7 -
Remember Your Divine Calling:
NEVER forget that God has called you to be the mother of your children, and the keep of your home. The humble service you give to your family every day is a way to show them that you love them, and that their happiness and sense of well-being is important to you!
Homemaking Rule #8 -
Let Go of Guilt:
Every day, every moment, we can begin again and improve! Don’t allow feelings of discouragement or guilt to bring you down and keep you from trying again. Satan uses those tools to keep us from becoming the mother and homemaker God wants us to be. If you stumble, ask forgiveness from your family and from God, and then move forward with a “brightness of hope.”
We can do it!
Never forget that the Lord will give you the strength and ability to care for your home and family in a way that is pleasing to Him. You do not have to be just like your neighbor, and you don't have to follow the world's standards for homemaking. If you seek the Lord in prayer, and follow the answers He gives you through His Holy Spirit, you WILL be the successful homemaker that He has called you to be!
Great advice! I loved the list! I have found meal planning especially helpful these days. I write a weekly dinner menu and shop for that. Then I don't have the frustration of trying to figure out what's for dinner. Most days, I don't even know what I planned, so it is such a relief to look at our little scrap taped to the fridge to tell me what I am going to make for dinner. It was nice today too because I have been ill. My oldest daughters simply checked the menu and made the planned meal.ReplyDelete
I agree! Menu planning makes life much more happy and peaceful! :-D (And makes it easier for helping kids to know what to cook!)Delete
Great post! I love, love, LOVE it! Keep it going momma!ReplyDelete
I have just found your blog! I love it and am following. Thank you. Blessings, GlenysReplyDelete
Wow! Super list :) Thank you and God bless you and your whole family!ReplyDelete
Beautiful! Marriage and family is a true vocation..a calling from God.My 5 are grown up now,but I truly loved being an old fashioned mother and wife.ReplyDelete
Love this page. I get to feeling that I am the only old fashioned woman left...ReplyDelete